However, that diagnosis almost paled into insignificance when the Sydney-based family began searching for appropriate support and assistance for the toddler.

Newly arrived from Great Britain and with no family or friends, the couple felt completely isolated and alone.

There was an 18-month waiting list for places in early intervention centres, while local preschools did not have the required facilities.

With an urgent need to get appropriate help for Finley and much needed support, the Stokes’ began looking for towns or areas which offered this assistance.

We looked at Brisbane and Port Macquarie, but Coffs Harbour offered what we were looking for, Karina said.

Within a handful of months of Finley’s diagnosis, the family - including daughter Shannon - had sold their Sydney home and moved to Toormina.

The Stokes’ were quickly introduced to Coffs Coast Autism and began to receive the services they were searching for.

Now aged six-years, Karina said Finley had thrived since his diagnosis as a three-year-old.

Moving from Sydney to Coffs Harbour to access help and support for our son was an excellent decision, Karina said.

“Finley has blossomed at early intervention, speech and occupational therapy and preschool.

“Our home has become full of therapy equipment and we have visuals plastered everywhere.

“Encouragingly, it’s all been beneficial and continues to be so.”

Earlier this year Finley began kindergarten at Mary Help of Christians, Toormina, where he continues to grow and develop both social and speech skills to the amazement of everyone.

“Every day he blows me away.

“He recognises words and he is learning to say new words.”

His kindy classmates are protective, and nurturing, and show amazing empathy and understanding for Finley’s condition.

Karina described Finley as a loving, easy going affectionate boy, who loved slap stick comedy, was adventurous and enjoyed swimming.